You should start a new thread if you are going to drift this much off subject …
You can move controls using Up/Down Buttons or by Drag-n-Drop.
To move items into a Parent (e.g. Group) many times you cannot use the TOA (must have children and must drag-n-drop IIRC) so you have to drag the control on Window into the Parent and the a message will ask you if you want to move into the Group.
You can also right-click on the TOA for a Popup to jump to Actions or Embeds